“Until death do us part.” That is what host of us said when we go married. Maybe that was thirty years ago or three. We meant it at the time. Then somewhere along the way something changed. You or your spouse began to consider whether you could stay emotionally and spiritually and he did not. Or she became more involved with the children and less with the marriage. Maybe the communication in and about the marriage broke down. Let’s find where and when that started and work our way forward.